The Next Level—Are You Ready?


I’ve been teaching the boy how to drive, and it has been going really well. He’s doing great, especially for learning on a stick shift having never driven anything else. We started in an empty parking lot, then moved to neighborhood streets, and then to a mostly-deserted-on-Saturdays office park. Incremental progress, just as it should be. But I’ve noticed an interesting pattern in his perceptions that I think applies to the rest of us too: he never feels ready for the next level.

I understand that. It’s hard to put yourself out there when you’re doing something new. When you’re used to driving on empty streets, it’s a little unnerving to suddenly have cars passing you and crossing your path at intersections. But the only way for him to get comfortable at the next level is to go there—in discomfort—and then get used to it.

That pretty much applies to all of us any time we move into something new. What do I mean by “next level”? It’s that next step you’re looking for in spiritual, relational, or career growth. That thing you know God has called you to do, and you wonder why it’s taking so long. That vision for what you’ll do “one day,” if one day ever comes. In any of those situations, you may feel ready in some ways but terribly unprepared in others. And it’s true that God keeps in prep mode for a season. But when the time comes, the only way to move into the next level is . . . get this . . . to actually move into it.

So here are a few lessons about moving into something new I’ve learned from the driver training process:

1. You aren’t a good judge of your own readiness. None of us are. I know when my son is ready for the next challenge, but he doesn’t. Sometimes he thinks he isn’t ready, and he’s right. But sometimes he argues that it isn’t time, and it really is. So you may or may not really not be ready for your next level, but even when you are, you probably won’t know you are. You’ll have to follow God’s leading, listen to some other voices around you, trust them, and step forward in faith.

2. The next level is uncomfortable at first. It’s supposed to be, and that shouldn’t be a hindrance at all. Why? Because almost all growth takes place outside of a comfort zone. If my son never drove outside of the deserted office park, he would be awfully limited in where he goes in life. The same is true for our spiritual, relational, and vocational goals. If we stick with what we’re used to, we’ll never be able to move beyond it. We’ll be comfortable. We just won’t be nearly as fruitful.

3. Sometimes the next level looks like a setback. There are times when I’ve taken him driving in areas that look less challenging than the ones he’s already mastered. They aren’t; they require some skills he hasn’t learned yet and get him closer to his ultimate goal. But they look like a demotion, just like many of the experiences we face. The biblical Joseph, for example, experienced setback after setback after sharing his dreams with his brothers. Every single setback—slavery, prison, being forgotten—got him one step closer to the fulfillment of his dreams. Sometimes our deepest disappointments are promotions in disguise. They are moving us closer to the goal.

My son looks forward to driving anywhere he wants to go. He’s hyped about the goal. But the process? Not so much. He doesn’t hate it; he just isn’t wild about it. But his objective keeps him behind the wheel.

That’s life, friends. Arriving at the goal always worth the cost of getting there. And very often, probably much more often than you think, you’re ready for the next level. You just need to know the moment and step out of your comfort zone.

Click to tweet: Almost all growth takes place outside of a comfort zone.

Click to tweet: Sometimes our deepest disappointments are promotions in disguise.

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