What Happened to Civil Discourse?

The purpose—and limits—of 'spiritual sarcasm'

sarcasmSpiritual sarcasm? Yes, there is such a thing.

Elijah used it in taunting the priests of Baal in a spiritual showdown. “Perhaps your god is sleeping, or maybe he’s off relieving himself somewhere,” he suggested (2 Kings 18:27).

Paul used it too, like when he urged those who insisted on circumcision to just go ahead and emasculate themselves (Galatians 5:12), and when he “apologized” for not burdening the Corinthians like other preachers might have (2 Corinthians 12:13).

There are times when sarcasm makes a point.

But as far as I can tell, this occasional rhetorical strategy is never used in scripture on the humble or sincere. It’s always pointed at the proud and condescending. Why? Because that’s their language. If you want to communicate effectively with Russians, you speak Russian. If you want to reach Bangladeshi, you speak Bengali. So if you want to influence the proud and condescending, you may want to speak sarcasm. That’s how it works.

Sarcasm is essentially a way of saying, “I don’t respect your viewpoint at all,” without actually saying it. And in the spirit of reaching people where they are, it can be pretty effective—that’s actually where some people are. They live in a mutually disrespectful environment and have closed their ears to civility.

But most people aren’t there at all. Most just want to have a normal, respectful conversation, which brings me to my point:

Sarcasm is way too common on online conversations, whether religious, political, whatever. It’s the way of the world. The problem is that it’s used prolifically by lots of people who aren’t supposed to be “of the world.” It has become a prominent feature of alleged Christian conversations—not so much in person, but definitely in the anonymity of the Internet. And that’s a problem.

Jesus said we will be known by our love, not by our snark. Even if it’s clever.

So here’s my request to those of you who say you follow Jesus. Could you dial it back a bit? Use sarcasm when it’s appropriate, but use it purposefully. And sparingly. And not on people who sincerely want to have a substantial conversation.

Tweetable: Jesus said we will be known by our love, not by our snark. Even if it’s clever.

Community Builder Avatar
Mary Agrusa 22.09.2014 10:48  
Yes No   Excellent points and so true. It is possible to have a real meaningful conversation without having to resort to snide remarks and put downs. I agree, at times, in small doses sarcasm works so it should be used wisely and sparingly.  
  • Smileys
  • :confused:
  • :cool:
  • :cry:
  • :laugh:
  • :lol:
  • :normal:
  • :blush:
  • :rolleyes:
  • :sad:
  • :shocked:
  • :sick:
  • :sleeping:
  • :smile:
  • :surprised:
  • :tongue:
  • :unsure:
  • :whistle:
  • :wink:

©2013-present by chris tiegreen